My whole family hates me!!!????

first of all if your family can't accept you for who you are including the good and the bad then I am sorry for you because your family sucks. I understand how you could freak out about everything that has been going on and you are right if it were them then they would probably react the same way. I think you just need to stand tall and hold strong to what you know is right and if they can't stand behind you and support you in the good and the bad then forget them.