I cannot get turned on as of late?

I got hurt about 6 months ago and was on medications and have lost my ual drive. Ive tried repeatedly with my boyfriend to get turned on. I can watch a ton of and eventually get turned on but then hes usually asleep when i finally get riled up. This morning he tried to get me going before work and i just couldnt do it. I have tried to help him in trying different things or movements. I was saying try this or that and he got really mad at me. We ended up fighting and he left for work. He is very impatient when i try to help him touch me the right way or kiss me the right way. He gropes me and pressures me telling me that i dont have enough etc. Which bothers me. I cannot help im not turned on. We are both in our late 20s and have been together for 2 years. This mornings fight was bad, he ended up making me feel so bad i cried and ended up saying "Until you figure out what turns you on NO !" I just went in the bathroom and cried. I could really use some help. What can i do to get turned on by him if does it. What can me and him both do to help the situation? Also vibrators do nothing for me and when i do its usually really bad and i have to masturbate feverishly during to get off.