Hi everybody... need your help/advice on leaving a relationship...?

Pack up your things, grab the baby and go. Neither of you deserve to live like this. Go to your mums, or anywhere where you will be supported and looked after. If he even wants to see his child then I would seek advice first, as it seems he can't be trusted to look after a baby properly. The only person that really matters is your little girl and you need to make sure she is safe and well looked after. You can't do that where you are now. Find someone who will put you both up for a while and leave immediately. I hope you find the strength to do what you NEED to do x